Where is this place where men disappear to suddenly???
I am rarely surprised by this phenomenon anymore as it has become standard practice in fact it’s a surprise when a guy DOESN’T disappear!!
I’m certain if we women were let in on the location of this ‘Nevernever man land’ we would find copious amounts of disheveled males cowering in a corner not sure what to do. Shaking, maybe crying…. Scared of the scary female scary people.
“OMG I have to communicate”. “OMG I have to reply to her message or something”. “OMG OMG OMG what do I do???”
“I know, I’ll ignore her messages, not respond to her calls, go stealth and hide in Nevernever man land with the other guys. It’s safe there … I like her though. She’s awesome. Attractive, fun, interesting and I could see myself dating her for sure. But Nevernever man land is safer … Yea I will go there.”
Meanwhile back in the land of adulthood, I move on and possibly roll my eyes. I always have a giggle when a week or even month later I get a message from ‘magic disappearing act guy’ and he carries on like he never went anywhere!!!
I felt inspired to write this blog today because I got a text from a guy I was chatting with about two months ago this afternoon. Not heard a thing from him and suddenly I get a text … Heart-felt, in-depth, totally going to win me over right?
Xx SingleCass 😘