Hey, I’m Naomi – the Brit Brunette. Cass – the Aussie Blonde – and I met in Malaysia in 2015 at a fitness convention and are united in our pasts by both previously working for Zumba Fitness. Quite incredible we never met before really!
Both of us had arranged to go to Bali for a few days after the fitness convention so naturally we joined forces and Cass, experienced in the art of working Bali, showed me around.
We’ve become great friends, frequently sharing stories of our dating mishaps, supporting each other, laughing and marvelling at the fact anyone is able to find a good man these days (we know you exist… honest!)
But maybe we’re just a bit fussy! We allow ourselves to be so because what good would it be to spend our lives being miserable with the wrong guys.
This seems to be very apt for us and our conversations:
So join us on our journey. Laugh, be shocked (I hope my parents don’t read this!) and laugh out loud again at our candid tales of dating in cities, from London where I live, to Brisbane, where Cass lives, and everywhere in between.
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30-something, 5’4″ Divorced, Brit/Italian mix. Lover of laughter and dancing.
I run my own business in fitness/tech. Grew up in the UK and have also lived in Italy and South Africa. Currently living in London, UK.
I’m interested in meeting fun, interesting, visionary, successful (amazing how many people think successful means lots of money…) men with a view to finding something more meaningful.
I value respect and honesty above all.
No mummy’s boys. No time-wasters. No rude or disrespectful people.
Yes to open-minded, compassionate, fun, excited-about-life, reliable, intelligent GENTLEMEN who talk straight and who are respectful. Must know how to lead and not be afraid of a strong, passionate woman with values and an opinion.
Great smile, eyes and arms will catch my attention. Making me laugh and feel special will win me over. Good conversation is a must.
No effort = No Naomi! (stolen from my friend Nikki, also a confident, successful, single woman in London)
Oh and my working life is mostly spent in sportswear so when I go out I like to dress up and wear heels. You still need to be taller than me when I am wearing heels (yes, that means you get to be my protector!) *note my height above*
Yes, I’m quite familiar with Bali having visited there over 13 times and counting. It was Naomi’s first visit to Asia and I was glad to be there to break her in gently.
Following Naomi’s lead, I am a 40-something woman living in Brisbane, Australia. I am completely Aussie, born and bred but with a Dutch father. I have traveled extensively to many continents and love the thought of landing in a new airport finding my own way to where I need to go. I have mostly traveled solo and mostly for work. I too work in the fitness industry and although rarely traveling for relaxation, I get to meet new people and discover new cultures and beautiful beaches whilst working
I have been single for over six years now with a short seven month relationship ending over two years ago.
Im 167cm and like Naomi I am attracted to men who are taller than me, bigger than me, stronger than me. Men who make me feel like a woman. Feel safe and protected. Strength isn’t only physical it’s also in their confidence and the way they take control. I really like a man who is assertive yet never arrogant. I want to dress nice for a night by your side and love to wear a hot dress and beautiful heels. I would hate to be doing that and be looking down at you and assume that as man, most men wouldn’t find that too attractive either.
Physically I seem to be attracted to Caucasian men, aged 38-45, at least 5 foot 10, someone active be it gym or otherwise, a keen sense of fashion, great smile and kind eyes.
I tend to find that men find women like us especially attractive being girls who are confident in their ability and know who they are. Who are independent and are comfortable taking care of themselves. It is also often the very thing that drives them away so it takes a truly confident man who knows what he wants to balance things out, and put them where they need be.
I have no kids no ex husband
What I have discovered I miss when traveling, is turning to someone and saying ‘wow look at that’. I’m blessed to experience some amazing things and do so on my own. One day I would like to be holding someone’s hand and see these things together.
Although I’m single I am not generally lonely. There are moments I wish it was different but being with the right person is far more important than filling an empty seat on a plane. Quality over quantity I say.
What about you? Are you single too? Dating? New boyfriend? Partner or one of the lucky ones who’s found a mate for life! Let us know in the comments below!
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